You're not perfect, nobody is.....

Accept yourself the way you are.

 We often try to imitate and end up being in the race of becoming perfect.

Never burn yourself out, real change is built on the foundation of love, faith and trust.

 There is an amazing power getting to know your inner self, you should learn how to use it and not  fight with the world instead.

We are at war with our inner selves when we try to be perfect all the time, this costs our peace and it is not good at all.

There are things we want to achieve or become so badly that we put all our strength for that, just keep up the good hope and not get depressed if it turns out into something unexpected. 

Be happy for at least you tried, someday you will hit the target and achieve it.

Goal of perfection is something impossible for any human being, but we can and we should try to be better version of ourselves with every single day which passes. 

It takes a lot of hard psychological work to realize that our pursuit of perfection is in vain. This is because, no one is perfect, no one has it all. And even if we could be perfect, it won’t get us to where we really want to go.

A balance is needed, change and acceptance go hand in hand. If we grow to accept and love ourselves as the real, ordinarily good people that we are, then our efforts to change have the right orientation.

We are never perfect, but we can perfect ourselves by converting our negatives into positives.

So, perfection is......?

You decide :)


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