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Indian Customs vs Scientific Reasons.... Believe it or not, there is mostly scientific reason behind Hindu rules and beliefs. We sometimes feel that traditions are superstitions but with the advent of science , it has become evident that all age old beliefs have scientific reasons and moved from generations to generations as traditions which we follow in our day to day lives. I often questioned myself as to why I need to follow such rules, who thought so, made it public and finally a tradition to be followed in generations to come. Today I wanted to share some ideas which I collected over these, and here it goes..... One of the very important points to discuss is the Sleeping Position ...  One should never sleep with head towards south or west.... As per Hindu mythology Sun God rises in east so we should not put our feet towards him, also one should not put feet towards south as after death the body is placed in that position so it is not considered auspicious. Well, we do...

Akrasia Effect.....Weakness of will Human beings have been procrastinating for centuries, we Don’t Follow Through on What We Set Out to Do and What to Do About It. But the question is "Why Do We Act Against Our Better Judgment?" Akrasia–so nice to have a word to describe a very complex set of assumptions, decisions, personal biases and biological influences which sometimes help to make my life a little miserable. I guess this is where self-forgiveness and the concept of trying again come into play, to counteract the effects of same. A central problem of our minds is that we know so much in theory about how we should behave but engage so little with our knowledge in our day-to-day conduct. One possible cause could be "Time Inconsistency", our mind values immediate rewards than future ones. Present self really likes instant gratification, not long term payoff. Our knowledge is both embedded within us and yet is ineffective for us. To succeed ...

#A_TWISTED_VIEW_OF_MARRIAGE People will see a man washing his clothes and instead of minding their business, they'll say "Ahh man, go and marry so you'll stop washing". They'll see a man cooking and be like "Bro you need to get married so you can stop cooking". A mother will look at his 35years old son who cannot wash his own boxers, boil water for tea or even make his own bed, a 35years old that cannot take his plates to the kitchen after eating and tell him "James, you need to settle down, get a woman to take care of you". SERIOUSLY?? 😳😳 In different ways, the society subconsciously tell men that they don't marry women for any reason other than cleaning, cooking and childbearing. I begin to wonder, does the average man need a wife or a glorified maid? Many women look 3times their age all because of stress and exhaustion. You sit down in front of the TV with your phone and watch your wife work until she's about to pass out...

Dash  represents all the time that we spent alive on earth, for it matters not, how much we own, the cars..the house..the cash. What matters is how we live & spend our  Dash .  One of the most difficult lessons in life to learn is that..less is usually more, & only as we grow older we understand it. Focusing on our most important priorities, & continually removing the clutter, will be key to any true success in our life. Sometimes when you look through the lens of a camera the image is blurred. However, with one small tweak of the lens, it can become crystal clear. For me that's what can happen when combining a beautiful photograph with inspirational words. It can resonate with your imagination & bring idea to life. Our  Dash  is a fleeting moment in time, & what we do with it is upto us. Live your  Dash .

Land locked area. Ravaged by floods regularly. Ganga passing through Bihar does not benefit north Bihar. Bihar doesn't have any mineral deposits, so industries could not develop here. Due to shortage of engineering colleges in Bihar, we are forced to go to south & keeping industry alive there. A Bihari named Sake Dean Mahomed started First Indian restaurant business in 1789 from London. Bihar had very flourishing education sector till independence. Most of places in Bihar have no drinking water issue. Sher shah Suri from Bihar gave Grand trunk road to India. He also established the land record system of mughal and post mughal era. Independent India's first president came from Bihar. Netarhat School, established in erstwhile Bihar, is the inspiration of Navodaya  Vidyalaya model in whole country. Most of top railway engineers in India comes from Jamalpur railway training facility. SCRA, a tough exam, choose people to train them in Bihar. Sudha Dairy is sec...

Its being rightly said that " Winners never Quit, Quitters never win ".  One rarely gets what he wants to achieve and eventually write a thousand page book cursing the factors, situations, circumstances etc. That became the greatest reasons of his failures. The moment when he open his eyes from his self created imaginary world where he stood as the single right person blaming everyone   and   looks at the reality he finds himself completely lost in the crowd as an unnoticed mediocre person. He is eventually left with two options:- Either to accept his failure and lead a below average life, or   Fight the most difficult battle of life to actually attain his ambitions without even a second’s break.   In this fight he becomes his greatest opponent and has to limitless struggle to win and conquer himself. It’s a true fact that life is not a bed of roses and we can’t achieve whatever we dream until and unless we don’t fight for it. To achieve somet...